After you agree
What each side does next
You've shaken hands. Here's every step from here to the keys — one list for each person, by state. Tick them off; the page remembers where you are on this device.
Lease takeover in New Jersey
Three to five weeks, start to keys. The bank runs the paperwork; you two run the timing.
Poster (current lessee)
- Call the bank and say "lease assumption."Use the number on the listing's bank card. Give them the taker's name and phone. Ask: fee, who can pay it, and "will I be released in writing?"
- Keep paying until the bank says it's done.Your account must be current the whole way through, and you're on the hook for every payment until the transfer posts.
- Sign the assumption packet when it arrives.Email or mail, depending on the bank. Ask the taker to confirm they've signed their part too.
- Agree the handover odometer and condition in writing.A text with the odometer reading, date, and any known dings, sent to each other, is enough. Excess wear is billed at lease end to whoever holds it then.
- Take your plates off the car.NJ plates belong to you, not the car. NJ MVC says to remove them and surrender them at a motor vehicle agency (or transfer them to your next car).
- File the release of liability with NJ MVC.Free, online, same day as the handover. It stops tolls, tickets and camera fines landing on you. NJ MVC — transferring ownership
- Cancel your insurance only after the bank confirms.Not before. The bank needs the taker's policy on file first.
- Mark the listing taken.From "Your listings" on the board.
Taker (new lessee)
- Apply with the bank.They'll send you a credit application (or a link). You'll need income proof and a driver's license. 3–14 business days for a decision depending on the bank.
- Get an insurance quote now, bind it when approved.Leases require full coverage with the bank named as loss payee; the bank will tell you its minimums. Ford is reported to require your insurance card before finalizing.
- Sign your part of the assumption packet and pay the fee.Whatever the listing said about who pays the fee, the bank will tell you how to pay your share.
- See the car and read the odometer before the handover.Photograph the odometer and the four corners. That photo is your baseline for excess-wear charges at the end.
- Register the car in your name at NJ MVC.Bring the bank's assumption confirmation, your insurance card, license, and the registration. The bank stays on the title as owner. You'll get new plates and pay title and registration fees. NJ MVC
- Ask the bank about sales tax.New Jersey hasn't published a rule for a new lessee taking over an existing lease. Some banks collect tax on the remaining payments; ask before you sign so there's no surprise.
- Pay the poster only after the bank confirms.If the listing had an amount "asked upfront," hand it over at the keys, after the bank's confirmation — not before.
Lease takeover in New York
Same three to five weeks — plus one thing New York does that no other neighbor does: it taxes the remaining payments again.
Poster (current lessee)
- Call the bank and say "lease assumption."Use the number on the listing's bank card. Give them the taker's name and phone. Ask: fee, who can pay it, and "will I be released in writing?"
- Keep paying until the bank says it's done.Your account must stay current, and every payment is yours until the transfer posts.
- Sign the assumption packet when it arrives.Confirm with the taker that they've signed too — a packet with one signature sits.
- Agree the handover odometer and condition in writing.A text with the reading, the date and any dings, sent both ways.
- Take your plates off and surrender or transfer them.NY plates are yours. Surrender them at a DMV office (or transfer them to your next car) — until you do, the registration stays open in your name. NY DMV — surrender plates
- Cancel your insurance only after the plates are surrendered and the bank confirms.New York fines you for a lapse in insurance while plates are still registered to you. Plates first, insurance second.
- Mark the listing taken.
Taker (new lessee)
- Apply with the bank.Credit application by link or email; income proof and license. 3–14 business days.
- Budget for New York sales tax at assumption.NY treats the takeover as a new taxable sale: tax on all remaining payments plus the transfer fee, at your county's rate, with no credit for what the poster paid. The bank usually collects it. The listing's cost breakdown shows the amount once you pick your county.
- Get an insurance quote now, bind it when approved.Full coverage with the bank as loss payee. NY requires the insurance to be active before the DMV will register the car to you.
- Sign your part of the assumption packet and pay the fee.
- See the car and photograph the odometer before the handover.
- Register the car in your name at a NY DMV office.Bring the bank's assumption confirmation (it's your proof of ownership as lessee), your NY insurance ID card, license, and form MV-82. You get new plates; the bank stays on the title. NY DMV — register a leased vehicle
- Pay the poster only after the bank confirms.Any cash between you changes hands at the keys, after the bank's written confirmation.
Private car sale in New Jersey
Simpler than a lease — no bank in the middle — but the buyer has a 10-working-day clock and the seller has one form that protects them.
Seller
- Have the title in hand.If there's a loan, call the lender for a payoff letter and ask how they release the title (usually mailed within 10–14 days of payoff). Tell the buyer up front.
- Meet at a bank branch for payment.Cash counted by a teller, or a cashier's check you watch being issued, or a transfer that has landed in your account. Not a personal check, not a wire "on its way," not a payment app for this amount.
- Sign the title over — every line.Seller's signature, buyer's name and address, sale price, date, and the odometer reading (required for model year 2011 and newer). No blanks, no white-out.
- Write a bill of sale, two copies.Year, make, model, VIN, mileage, price, date, both names and addresses, and the words "sold as-is." Both sign. Keep yours.
- Take your plates off.They're yours. NJ MVC says to remove them and surrender them at a motor vehicle agency (or transfer them to your next car).
- File the Notice of Transfer / Release of Liability online.Free, within 10 days. This is the form that stops tolls, tickets and accidents landing on you. NJ MVC — transferring ownership
- Cancel the insurance on that car after the release is filed.
- Mark the listing sold.
Buyer
- Run the VIN before you meet.NHTSA recalls (free) and an NMVTIS title history (about $3) — that's where salvage, flood and odometer flags show up.
- See it, drive it, read the odometer.Match the VIN on the dash to the VIN on the title. If it's a car you'll keep, a $100–$150 pre-purchase inspection at any mechanic is the best money you'll spend.
- Pay at a bank branch and leave with the signed title.Never pay a deposit to hold a car. Never pay for a car whose title you can't see.
- Insure it before you drive it.Call your insurer with the VIN from the parking lot; most bind coverage over the phone.
- Title and register at an MVC agency within 10 working days.Bring the signed title, bill of sale, proof of insurance, ID, and payment: title fee $60 ($85 with a lien), plus 6.625% sales tax on the price, plus registration. Late = $25 penalty. NJ MVC — titles
- If the seller had a loan:pay the lender's payoff directly (a bank branch can do it while you wait) and the balance to the seller; the lender mails the clean title to the address you agree on. Get the payoff receipt.
Private car sale in New York
Two DMV forms do most of the work: the bill of sale (MV-912) and the tax statement (DTF-802).
Seller
- Have the title in hand.If there's a loan, get the lender's payoff letter and lien-release process first, and tell the buyer.
- Meet at a bank branch for payment.Teller-counted cash, a cashier's check issued in front of you, or a transfer that has landed. Nothing else.
- Sign the title over with the odometer reading.Required for model year 2011 and newer. If your title has no mileage line, both of you complete form MV-103 (Odometer and Damage Disclosure). MV-103
- Complete the bill of sale — form MV-912 — two copies.Price, VIN, date, both names; write "as-is." Both sign. MV-912
- Sign DTF-802 if the buyer asks.It's the buyer's sales-tax form; the DMV requires the seller's signature in some cases (gifts, prices below market value). Easiest to sign it at the sale. DTF-802
- Take your plates off — the buyer cannot drive on them.Surrender them at a DMV office or transfer them to your next car. Until you do, the registration and its insurance requirement stay in your name. NY DMV — surrender plates
- Cancel insurance only after the plates are surrendered.New York suspends registrations — and fines — for an insurance lapse on registered plates.
- Mark the listing sold.
Buyer
- Run the VIN before you meet.NHTSA recalls (free) and an NMVTIS title history (about $3).
- See it, drive it, read the odometer, match the VIN to the title.A pre-purchase inspection is worth it on anything you plan to keep.
- Pay at a bank branch and leave with the signed title and MV-912 (and DTF-802 if the seller needs to sign it).No deposits. No title, no money.
- Insure it before it moves.NY won't register a car without an active NY insurance ID card in your name.
- Register and title at a DMV office.Bring the signed title, MV-912, DTF-802, MV-82 (registration application), insurance card, ID, and payment: sales tax on the price (your county's rate), title certificate fee $50, plates ($25) and registration. NY DMV — buy, sell or transfer
- If the seller had a loan:pay the lender directly for the payoff and the balance to the seller; the lender releases the lien and the DMV issues your title.
Fees, deadlines and forms as published by NJ MVC and NY DMV, checked September 18, 2026 (NJ: 10 working days, $60/$85 title, $25 late penalty, 6.625% tax; NY: $50 title certificate, $25 plates, MV-912/DTF-802/MV-103/MV-82). Bank-process details marked "reported" come from marketplaces and customers, not the bank. This page is a checklist, not the agencies' own instructions — the links go to the source.